I’m 42, professional, married (he is aware but not involved at all,) very Bi, and especially, a Dominatrix. (Spell. It. Out.) This lifestyle is more than a hobby, but I am certainly no pro. Gifts accepted. I discovered this life about fifteen years ago when I had an affair with a professional client who became my mentor in several different ways. He taught me very well and the only one I have or will submit to.
I prefer very MASCULINE, mature, submissive MEN. They hold the umbrella, walk on the street side of a sidewalk, hold doors open for me, order for me in a restaurant……THEN get on their knees. My girls can be dominant, submissive or switch to their partners, but to me, only submissive. Real women have real curves, and I especially like busty, light skinned gingers. All will either have; or willing to develop only the best oral skills. It takes hours of practice to get anywhere near perfect. That goes well with really tight, hard bondage sessions, and the best are with a submissive male and female couple together. I love working with couples.
While I prefer the look of metal restraints, and usually start a session with handcuffs and leg irons, leather is the only practical alternative for extended periods. I love keeping a submissive blindfolded and (especially) in a sensory depredation hood.
For both male and female partners, my favorite toys are a mouth dildo with a full head harness and a delightful one called a chin strap. I love using a strap-on on both males and females AND getting one used on me. Yes, girl, you can do that while you are handcuffed. Put your back in it. Favorite position with a man is “Cow Girl” and reverse. Guys, if you are facing down, your ass is about to get used. Suck the dildo, then bury your head in the pillow and scream all you like. My meanest trick is to put a tiny bit of desensitizing cream in a condom, and let him work till he drops, then climb on top. Instant human dildo.
If I am going to be somewhere that I do not have something already arranged, I'll put a note here. Yes, I have other communication methods, but I never link them. You will not see pictures of me on this or any site like it.
What I don’t like: I don't do cyber. Not interested in internet relationships. Sissies. Men who want to be in chastity. Boys who think they are men. No offense to you and your preferences or choices, but if you are a sissy, just go away. Not what I am looking for.
